weight problem

Today was a beauitful day outside , did not get to enjoy it like i would of like too, it one of those days that my side was hurting really bad, had to take IBProfpen But I got my house clean all but my clothes for some reason I can't stand doing it , it all the putting away.......I got on my will fit today and so did my daughter it has been one week that I got it and already lost 2.2 pounds and my daughter already lost 1.3 pounds it is not like she needs to lose weight but it giving her something to do sents we don't have a yard, and she needs to move around , but me in the other hand I need to lose about 125 pounds to be at my goal weight, it is been a hard battle for the last 4 1/2 months but all i can say is 20 pounds gone and 105 to go............I don't want my kids to see me fat for the rest of my life and not be able to do stuff w/them .My daughter starts school this year and I don't want her to think of me as the ugly and fat mommy, I think that my hardest problem is giving up my pop and sweets , I have always like healthy food , but my sweets get in the way wish that i could just eat a little at a time but when i start i feel like i can't stop.I need help w/it , I just wish my husband will help and get on the ball too , b/c it he does not it will die of a heart atack,he has breathing problems already and sleeps w/a breather.......I just wish i had morel support ......................................here is praying for another good day w/family and friends.